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To the Man in the Arena  "It is not the critic who counts, nor the man who points how the strong man stumbled or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena; whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly...who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause; who, at best, knows the triumph of high achievement; and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat."      Teddy Roosevelt


The Way of Transformation  "The man, who, being really on the Way, falls upon hard times in the world will not, as a consequence, turn to that friend who offers him refuge and comfort and encourages his old self to survive. Rather, he will seek out someone who will faithfully and inexorably help him to risk himself, so that he may endure the suffering and pass courageously through it. Only to the extent that man exposes himself over and over again to annihilation, can that which is indestructible arise within him. In this lies the dignity of daring."    Karlfried Graf von Durkheim  


Dreamers of the Day  "This, therefore, is a faded dream of the time when I went down into the dust and noise of the Eastern market-place, and with my brain and muscles, with sweat and constant thinking, made others see my visions coming true. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that all was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes, and make it possible."   T. E. Lawrence  


Until One Is Committed   "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation) there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself,
then providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would not otherwise have occurred  A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance which no man would have dreamed would come his way. I have learned a deep respect for one of Goethe's couplets: "Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it! Boldness has genius, magic, and power in it."
W.H. Murray  


"If you want to build a ship If you want to build a ship don't herd people together to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea."  Antoine de Saint-Exupery


"To dare is to lose one's footing momentarily. To not dare is to lose oneself."  Soren Kierkegaard


 Happiness "The full use of your powers along lines of excellence." -         definition of "happiness" by John F. Kennedy 


"If you are going through hell, keep going."   Sir Winston Churchill 


"No man for any considerable time, can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude without finally getting bewildered as to which may be the truth.     Nathaniel Hawthorne    


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